To set the record straight as lies are being told about me.... Im sure everyone by now knows my husband is filing divorce. This came about while he was deployed recently. To my knowledge I thought everything in our relationship was fine. We had just bought a new vehicle, we were looking at bigger homes and preparing for the arrival of our son. Of course we have our ups and downs just like everyone but were so close before he left overseas. While he was gone he was calling and massaging me everyday until one week I noticed the calls and messages got fewer and fewer. Finally after 4 days of not hearing from my husband I asked him what happened to us and if there was someone else. He then told me there is someone hes falling for but refused to tell me who said woman was as he didnt want to ruin her life. The military sent him home to be with me so we could concentrate on fixing our marriage and start marriage counciling. My husband continued to talk to the girl while home and when I asked if he was still talking to her he looked at me and swore on our unborn babies life that he was not talking to her. One night I opened up his computer which had died, so I plugged it in. When the comp turned on it was logged into his fbook account. While sitting there I saw new messages coming threw from Danielle Taronji where he was professing his love for her and she was doing the same. They talked about holding eachother and she talked about leaving her fiancé because he just didnt pay enough attention to her. This conversation between them went on while I was under the impression he was at the gym. Come to find out he was sitting in our vehicle right down the road from our house talking to her instead. James and I talked and he told me he was filing for divorce once the baby is born and that he was having these feeling about leaving me since before we were married. Why he then proceeded to marry me and try for six months to conceive a baby is beyond me. After I informed his Sgt we would not be using the counciling as he said he was filing divorce the military issued a no contact order between the two of them, which made my husband angry so he came home, packed his belongings, took our rotty, moved out and drained the bank account. I have tried rekindling our marriage everyday since I found out about this affair but it seems he has already made up his mind. While engaged we had a few bumps in the road with other women entering the picture. I first was concerned about an ex girlfriend of his as she had text him one night which blew my mind as he had just changed his number. Then there was a was a girl at work who he had previously had relations with that started calling and texting at all hours of the day and night. I proceed to tell my husband I didnt want her calling and didnt want them on the same shift. It wasnt until after she had left the military that I found out she was contacting him so much because she was running the shop and didnt know what she was doing so was asking for assistance, which I found out from my brother. We were together for eleven months with me knowing the previous situation of the woman he worked with and had no issues. If my husband would have told me the situation there would have never been a problem. Now i find it uncalled for that hes telling everyone that I am insecure and overly jealous, which is the reason he is leaving me. I love my husband with all my heart and soul and despite his affair I forgave him and was and still am willing to make it work. However I will not sit by by as lies are being told about me. I understand with divorce comes people choosing sides. I am not asking for anyone to take sides, I am just setting the record straight and asking you to please pray for my family and marriage as we are going through a very difficult time!!!
Posted on: Sun, 24 Aug 2014 06:05:18 +0000