Tonight I am thinking back to some big changes in my marriage. BREAKTHROUGH, between our fight to be heard, seen, understood, pursued, validated, and ultimately Loved unconditionally. If this sparks your interest, please continue.... Though at times I seem like a push over, Im actually pretty strong on the inside in a lot of ways. James on the other hand is extraordinarily strong. His determination to pursue his dreams often left me feeling stranded and un appreciated. In the Christian faith a counselor may tell you, you need to submit to your husband. Well, easier said than done. When you feel rejection it drives you to make poor choices or search for validation in other ways. That is called (The Danger Zone) in a marriage. So whats left if your hitting a brick wall..? Well, for me I dug deep. I went back to my roots. I found missing pieces of myself. Sought The Lord and He answered. Then I submitted to James. He is my leader. That does not mean Im weak, it actually means Im strong enough to surrender to him, while not comprising my own sense of being. Now Im free to fully enjoy his achievements and I still feel like Im living too. I dont normally # hashtag But this was a lot to share, so # I need a blog.
Posted on: Fri, 26 Sep 2014 01:57:32 +0000
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