Tonight I was chatting with one of my most eligible bachelor friend (hot and smart but not so available haha) about love. Settling for feelings vs list. Sometimes u get a super good catch with an amazing list that can fulfill your wildest dreams, yet no feelings/chemistry; or u get the most passionate relationship with a bad list that you never wanted. Lol we all kinda been there and struggled with this list vs feeling thing. Some are lucky and found the ones you have mad feelings for and got most stuff on your list, I would say thats a good deal despite the fact that you didnt get all ur list done haha; some r not so lucky and settled with the list and gave up on finding someone you are cray cray for (I would hate to feel like that, sometimes giving too much space and letting them do whatever could be a sign of maybe you r just not that into them. Healthy space is good but traveling alone and do things alone on the weekends is a sign of maybe u didnt find your best friend in love); some settled with just the feeling/chemistry and struggled with things they need or want in life and might forever be unsatisfied til old age.....anyways there is no perfect relationship, work on what you have or chose and try not to ignore what the other person need, so both of you can feel content.....just some extra inspirations for my not so complicated book. As for what I got? I shall reveal that in the book, but Im sure yall kinda figured it out 😁✌️ Good night 😴
Posted on: Fri, 27 Jun 2014 07:22:19 +0000