Tonight on the Lights Out on HOT100 with King Shovon Malcolm from 9pm-12am and you can listen live via hot100.ug Hi king, ma name is Calvin I have been with my girlfriend for a year and a couple of months. Recently, I checked her phone (after several things didnt add up) and realized she has been texting with her ex (and had stored his contact information under a girls name). She has told me that she wants me to put a ring on her finger and move in together, and even took me away on a very nice and expensive vacation as a birthday gift. She refused to let me help pay for any of it. I know it was not right to check her phone (I feel extremely guilty). What confuses me is that the text messages with the ex are very flirty and are about making plans to meet up -- prior to and after my vacation with her. I dont understand why she would plan/pay for the nice vacation and want to move in together while she is texting flirty messages with her ex and trying to meet up with him. What also bothers me is the constant lying when she randomly brings up the exs name. I ask if she has communicated with him, and it is always a clear no. I feel like its a slap in the face every time. I am not the jealous type and if she wants to be friends with her ex, so be it (we agree to disagree about talking to exes). But I feel there is more to it from the text messages. I want to end things with her. Overall, our relationship has been going south, partly because of her lies. The question is, how do I end it without being made out to be the bad guy? I want to bring up the text messages, but I know I cant because it was wrong to check her phone in the first place (she has checked my phone plenty of times and I have nothing to hide). Is my girlfriend emotionally cheating on me? And how do I avoid being the bad guy? Her friends and family are awesome. I just wish I didnt check her phone -- but there were clues leading me to want to check.
Posted on: Tue, 23 Dec 2014 19:46:59 +0000
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