♡♡♡♡♡Update 7♡HammerTime♡ This is a reprint of a previous post. This wont give you a warm fuzzy feeling, but its important for me to post, anyways. And, it is unfortunately, another long one. I say that because, my Updates are never quite as popular, when they have substance. But, thats not why I do them. They are, of course, about relationships. Mostly, The Good, but if I can write about that, then I need to write about, The Bad. Because, without the bad, well not recognize the good. Again, this is a reprint. And it received a lot of Likes, and positive feedback. I also received a lot of Messages, thanking me for addressing such a difficult subject. I find myself having to address this topic again, because Ive been dealing with it once again. And that would be, Abuse. The women that Ive dated recently have this one thing in common, above and beyond anything else. And I know, that you know, theyre not alone. I have expressed disappointment with these relationships, and it would be easy to just throw up my hands and exclaim, Women! But, its not that easy for me. I tend to ruminate about things, that I cannot understand or justify. And I have to add, that Im tired of paying the price for what some men have done to these Women. I DO NOT FAULT THE WOMEN. I may fault them for not getting help, and then continuing the cycle of abuse - but in the end, its the original source, of said abuse, I have a problem with. And to clarify, this wasnt an update, this was a result of something that happened that upset me. I was friends with someone, and their man put the Kibosh on our friendship. To no fault of our own. I could go on about the things this man does, but I digress. Apparently, in their household, theyre still living in the 1800s. I wrote this in reaction to the news that we were no longer friends: A word to some men out there: your woman is NOT your possession. I know, thats a NEWS FLASH. She actually was set free along time ago, and you cant change that. She may not know this, because of your systematic and devious efforts to confuse her, but shes free - trust me. If you cant handle her independence, maybe you should get a blankee? or learn to trust. Trust is kinda important in a relationship, fyi. Goes hand in hand with Respect, another word that you may want to look up, little boy. My biological father was like that. AKA: a real piece of shit. Your insecurities and your lack of balls may still get you into the mens room, but it wont keep you in her heart. You are a LOOSER, and when she realizes that she will be rid of you. It may not happen right away, but you know its coming - and you are paranoid about it, huh. Well, little boy, it will be okay. There are plenty of women out there, who were with someone like you before, and will welcome you with open arms. Beat down and vulnerable, thats your type right. You piece of shit
Posted on: Mon, 12 Jan 2015 10:23:58 +0000