VOW IS NOT TO BE BROKEN: To enter into a marriage is blissful and blessing of God. With all the vows on the stage by married couples during wedding night have become a casual performance or speech of eloquence. Articulate a vow on the auspicious wedding night or before signing the wedding certificate is simply a planned script to read it out, but FULFILLING the vow till death on earth is of most significance and takes a 100% commitment! To all men: Recap the moment how desperate you were and overflowing joy you had when you proposed to your then girlfriend and then she accepted your proposal and said, YES. She could have married another man who might not be as good as you in expressing his love through surprises and buying amazing gifts, but the other man could be the ideal hubby as compared to you as he bears FAITHFULNESS and COMMITMENT to the VOW no matter what happens. As such, Nothing should change from the time of your courtship after getting marrying your wife: 1) Give many surprises to your wife just to see her smile 2) Help her to carry heavy things during shopping and never allow her to do all the dangerous house chores that require climbing up and down from chair/ladder. 3) Never sleep in separate room or separate bed with your wife just because she is old and not as attractive as years ago when you tried to win over her from other men. 4) Never go clubbing or overseas golf trips without your wife and give excuses that it is mens night or business engagement or not convenient. Bear in mind before marriage, you long for her presence and company in all your outings with your friends and were proud to introduce her to all your friends. 5) Never allow your children to overtake the importance or position of your wife as without your wife, your children do not exist. Must continue to love her the most above children or significant others. 6) Respect your wife at all times as she is same as you: a human being who comes out from a mothers womb. She is not an object that you bought and then you have the authority to shout around at her, or used harsh and demeaning words to speak down on her or shame her (worst still, many men shouted at wives in the public and in front of wifes parents and children). 7) You need to demonstrate for LIFE your commitment of LOVE that you have vowed in front of many witnesses during your wedding day, in order to be a man of integrity. Your words are your bond! 8) Wife is a blessing of God and she is to be loved by you, to be showered with care, food and daily necessity and protection from you, and to be cherished and respected by you. Wife is not supposed to earn money for you or to be treated worse than a maid by you.
Posted on: Mon, 14 Jul 2014 05:01:53 +0000
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