WOW, this is good! This video took me back to a situation I dealt with. Do you have Baiters in your life? BAITERs, are individuals who betray you, talk about you, belittle you, or somehow try to exploit you for personal gain. It is a MUST that you get rid of those people in your life. Dont look past the red flags. For me, the wake up call came when a man I was seeing (and had been talking marriage with) told me April, I will throw anyone under the bus. I will always come out on top. Well, I didnt think he meant ME! When the truth started to come out, he told so many lies on me and tried to discredit me in the community. The kicker was, he had been doing this for months and I had NO CLUE! Why? Because he was still in my face, we were still hanging out, going on trips, doing business together like everything was all good. However, all along behind my back he was trying to do me in. That is deception on another level. I was so blown away and hurt. He came across as such a nice guy and boy does he have everyone around him fooled. However, there was always something on the inside of me that wouldnt allow me to totally connect with him. If a person will sit around and talk bad about the people in their life to you (especially those who they call friends since grade school), theyll do the same thing to you with others! That isnt my character, which means we werent a match...no matter how good we looked together on paper. The funny thing is, people like that will try to label you as angry, combative, head strong, wont submit, to defensive when you defend yourself against their foolishness. They are very believable liars. Therapy doesnt work because it only teaches them how to better manipulators. Why? Because people like this have no REAL feeling or empathy. They can only mimic those things, and that is what baits you in. Their very good at mimicking. He once told me April, I dont want a woman who can out think me. No, he didnt want a woman who would stand up for herself! He wanted a woman that would look pretty, let him treat her any kind of why, but shell let it ride because he buys her nice gift, takes her on shopping sprees, lavish vacations etc... NOT THIS WOMAN! I got rid of what I called the Wizard of Oz syndrome guy. Meaning, on the outside a person looks like they have so much power and respect. They even have others afraid of them and have a false sense of loyalty to them. However, in the Wizard of Oz, when the dog pulled the curtain back, it was a little insecure, no self worth, using people for his agenda, strong need for power, all those around him are strategically placed as game pieces and pawns in his game, could careless how their actions affects others, all about me man. Its all an illusion! Im so glad I didnt say I DO! People will ALWAYS show you who they REALLY are if you give them time. If YOU decide to stick around after youve seen the truth....YOU DESERVE WHAT YOU GET! You cant change the nature of people IJS! Great article Monique Dee moniquedee/1-mondays-how-to-spot-the-toxic-people-in-your-life-and-avoid-baiters/ #drphill #toxicpeople #toxicrelationships #baites #deception #liars #users #manipulators #
Posted on: Tue, 11 Nov 2014 18:18:58 +0000
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