Warning: This video contains foul language, characterizes violence and is horrifying for any parent biological or otherwise. How do you deal with a biological mother who acts this way? Any tips, legal advice, recommendations? My husband and I are married and I am a stepmother to two beautiful children. My stepdaughter is turning six and my stepson is eight. This video has been shown to our local police department, to several lawyers, and to the county mediator in regards to child custody. Brenda receives almost $2K in child support every month with split 50/50 custody. She frequents Vegas, three times so far this year alone and missed her childrens first school play in doing so. In CA the child support can be spent any way the receiver chooses. She frequents clubs, bars, and fight arenas every weekend and even weekdays when she has the kids. On top of that she has been institutionalized (51/50), and a meth/drug/ prescription pill addiction. She sleeps around bringing different men around the children and supporting them with money, new motorcycle tires, and taking them on weekend trips instead of spending the money on her two children. She promised the kids a trip to Disneyland, with the money that she receives she could easily do so. My husband and I took the kids to Legoland to share in family memories and family fun. We could have easily taken them to Disneyland but we did not want to infringe upon their mothers trip plans. Sadly but as no surprise to my husband and I the kids are still waiting for their mom to take them to Disneyland. Brenda receives child support, food stamps, cash aid, grants from school (she has been attending college for over 10 years now at the age of 33), WIC, and milks every other financial institution and system that she can. Even when she receives all of this money she still has the audacity to ask my husband for more. In January of this year she received $7K total from my husband, cash aid, welfare, etc. The other day Brenda said she had no food in the house and to drop them off food right now and of course we ran over there with food for the kids. Last week she did not have any money for school supplies and my husband purchased two sets for each household. This week she does not have any money for school clothes and of course we purchase two sets. This year during our court case she and another male individual came over to our house without notice. It was a school night when we received a knock on the door. The kids and I were sitting in the living room when my husband opened the door and proceeded to have papers thrown at him. My husband refuses the papers. This woman was trying to have my husband served when there was absolutely no need to do so. Everything has been finalized. Her paperwork was always missing, incorrect, and the the judge kept postponing things because she was never ready for court. She was trying to create another horrific scene in front of the children with my husband and I. The man proceeds to threaten to come back and kill my husband and me in front of our children. I called the cops but there was nothing they could do except file a report and that was all. This woman is a sick and twisted individual who is not worthy of calling herself a mother. Her actions in this video proceed to show her true colors, her true nature and her irrational and horrific actions in front of her children. She plays the single white mother card who is trying to go to school, get her life together and who married an African American man who she claims is a horrible father. All the while she flies to Vegas every opportunity she gets, clubs, bar hops, gets her hair done, tans, gets her nails done at the salon (I am talking about long hot pink fake nails every week) buys new club clothes, and buys/financially supports whoever she happens to be sleeping with at the time. *Side note: My husband and his ex Brenda were divorced in April. It is now August and she is two months pregnant with another mans child. All the while my husband and I were dating, engaged and married she sends him love songs, love notes and tells him that she loves him and wants to get back together. Sounds like she is going after someone else for more child support.* My husband works full time and I work full time to provide for our family. She doesnt work at all, nor will the state of CA force her to work as she is living off child support and any other money she can get from the county, state, and government. Legally she does not have to have a job to support the children. She is the epitome of a dead beat mom. Disgusted and disgruntled at our legal system that lets women who call themselves mothers use and abuse the system as they see fit. *Side note: We have bath time for our kids. My stepdaughter said that they never have bath time at Mommys house. Bewildered because I know most apartment complexes have a bathtub I asked her why. My step daughter told me that the tub was black and that Mommy does not want her to sit in the black tub so they take showers instead. A mother that lets black mold grow so badly that her daughter and son cannot even take a bath.* Prayers, advice, general support would be greatly appreciated. Thank you all and God Bless.
Posted on: Thu, 28 Aug 2014 13:59:38 +0000
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