We all get stuck. It happens. Even to the best of us. Here is the reality though, many of us are stuck b/c we don’t have a healthy relationship with uncertainty. Questions for you: What triggers uncertainty in your life? Maybe it’s when you get your bills each month. Maybe it’s the one look you see on someones face after youve been vulnerable with them. Maybe it’s when youre in a certain environment. Point is, it could be anything. Whats yours? Whats the thing that triggers your stuck? What happens in your life that makes you feel uncertain, that makes you feel that scared part of you? When does that part of you come out? In the past mine was dealing with conflict. I mastered avoidance behavior. Instead, of having that tough talk, I would watch hours of mindless television thinking that the conflict would magically go away. Fact of the matter was, conflict showed up big time when I started my business. So I could not continue with that sabotaging habit. It was holding back from creating deeper authentic relationships personally and professionally. Take time time to figure out whats keeping you stuck greatness. In most cases itll be very very subtle b/c its a habit for you now...you do it automatically.
Posted on: Tue, 05 Aug 2014 16:12:37 +0000