We all have our weak spots, especially when we set boundaries. It is good to know where they are because it is awareness which brings upon change. When we set boundaries one thing we can be sure of is they will be tested. The more difficult it is to keep that boundary in our life, the more important that boundary most likely is. People do not like boundaries. They do not like not having free reign to be in our lives as they choose. However, we need to have people in our lives who have our highest and best interest at heart in order to be healthy and happy. These people care about how they impact our lives and only want to impact it for the positive. People who need our boundaries feel entitled to us, they feel we owe them or they feel as if they can come and go as they please and these are not people who add anything to our sense of life satisfaction and happiness. This is why when we set limits on their behavior they will use any tactic they can to push them. When they have a boundary and they push it, remember it is not because they genuinely care for us, it is because they do not like the idea that their power has been taken away. They will manipulate us to feel guilty, they will be angry and try to intimidate...they will do it all just to see if we will bend on our boundaries. If we do bend we need to look at why...look at that weakness in ourselves and know that that is our place of transformation! This is a gift. Our weakest spots are the places where the light of knowledge can enter. Be open, see what needs to change and start developing stronger boundaries. Clean up your life. Love yourself.
Posted on: Sat, 18 Jan 2014 12:00:01 +0000
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