We go through our brilliant phases when we are helpless, because we are hurting... because we need advice. We "cry" for "help", not because we want someone to barge into our privacy and tell us there was no love at all, or make you cringe with harsh words, exactly what they do not know behind closed doors - but because we would have loved if they sit down with both of us and tell us what we need to do with each other. The tendency with talking to just one party is self-focus, leaving the other unable to voice their side, resentment and distrust, actions by the "aide" to ignore BOTH feelings. Love is not saying: Love thy neighbour as he is, but by showing your neighbour along with everyone that there is another way to live - and that is seeing beyond our bubble. Overlooking emotions and intellect is always the worst way to go...
Posted on: Tue, 20 Aug 2013 09:24:01 +0000
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