We love our grandchildren too! They are so wonderful when they are he ones who are brought up to respect and show love with true love, hugs and kisses. There are unfortunately the ones who are not brought up to respect and they do not know what love is about at all. What they are taught is money buys love. They open up cards to see if there is money in them, and if not they tear up and discard them just as they are taught to discard family members by the ones who raise them. They are only know what they see here and are taught which is a total lack of respect and one of them being calling parents and grandparents by their first name when their parents and grandparents do not play the game of rewarding disrespectful behavior. We do not reward disrespectful behavior nor do we tolerate it! It emphasizes even more and reflects even more how they are inappropriately influencing our grandchildren and the grandchildrens behavior. They dont care if the children are finishing their education and dropping out of school, or not getting their drivers license, or able to become self sufficient. They want them to become dependent on them and then blame everyone else because they breed negativity and live in a negative reality tv like world. This is so lacking in respect and positive atmosphere for the children. However they just do it as a payback because they themselves are so miserable they live out their lives through their children and the children are the ones who are losing out in every aspect in life. What future do they have that you are preparing them for? If you continue on this you are setting them up for failure, and then they are to pay you room and board but you are living off the system and the parent is getting money off the parent, grandparent and great grandparent. The grandparent is also getting money off the their parent. This is a way off life and both can go out and get regular jobs, but again use the children as an excuse. Excuses teach the children to use excuses, but it is amazing also that none can manage any type of normal relationships with anyone for any length of time as they do not know what a normal relationship is because this lack of knowledge has been handed down from generation to generation as well. We love our children and grandchildren but will not tolerate lack of respect whatsoever for even one minute. We love them but do not like nor will ever tolerate the lack or respect nor any negativity and calling of first names taught to them by their parents and/or other grandparents. Being rude and disrespectful will get neither the other grandparents, parents or grandchildren anywhere as it is rude, disrespectful, lacks respect and not a part of the way we live which is the following: The Lord states to live in the way He would have us to go and that is what we believe in and follow. We have children and grandchildren who do this and others who do not and it is a direct reflect of the parents and/or other grandparents as in which these children live.
Posted on: Tue, 29 Oct 2013 02:24:07 +0000
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