Weekly Knowledge #300 Singapore 12 Apr 2001 DEALING WITH BLAME AND ACCUSATION When someone blames you, you feel a heavy load on your head, and when you talk about it you spread the unpleasant feeling all around you. At that moment wake up and see you are Being and nothing can touch you. This is all just a drama that you yourself have created. You have gone through this over and over again. All the accusations you face in your life are your own creation. Knowing this, you feel free and light. Owning responsibility for all your experiences in life makes you powerful and will put an end to grumbling, planning counterattacks, explanations, and a host of negative tendencies. Owning full responsibility makes you free. When someone blames you, directly or indirectly, what do you do? ¤ Do you lodge it in your mind and get emotionally upset? ¤ Do you dismiss it and the blamer altogether without taking a lesson from it? ¤ Do you talk about it with people and waste your time and others time and money? ¤ Do you pity yourself and blame your shortcomings? ¤ Do you blame the other person? ¤ Do you generalize and eternalize the problem? When this happens you are not living up to the knowledge. You need to do the basic course at least half a dozen times and read all the weekly knowledge. ¤ Do you laugh at it and not even take notice of it? ¤ Do you treat it as a non-event, not even worth talking about, let alone taking any action? ¤ Do you treat comments and accusations as passing clouds and more of an entertainment? ¤ Do you discourage dwelling on unpleasant and negative moments? ¤ Do you remain non-judgmental and absolutely unshaken in your space of love? ¤ Outwardly you may be calm, but do you also remain centered and calm within you, not even taking pride in your growth or wisdom? Then you are a pride to your tutor - the Master. ¤¤¤¤¤ You cannot take credit for loving Guruji or any wise person. You have no choice at all as it will happen against all odds! To love someone whom you like is not a big deal at all. To love someone because they love you, you get zero marks. To love someone whom you do not like, you have learned a lesson in life. To love someone who blames you for no reason, shows you have learned the art of living.
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