Welcome to our page! My name is Mark Da Costa and that beautiful child you see in the photos throughout the page is my 19 month old boy Julian Da Costa. Julian and I have been kept away from each other by his mother for 9 months now. I havent seen him since the 5th of February of 2014, and there are no court orders in place for that to have occurred, but it happen anyway, and there were no local or national government organizations that could help me retrieve my son, or address the mothers decision to hide my son from me. So I started this page because I miss my Julian, and felt the urge to share my journey towards re-uniting with my son Julian through the family courts of Australia. This form of situation is known as PARENTAL ALIENATION. What is parental alienation you may be wondering? Its when a child is kept away from a parent by the other illegally, and with no just cause or court order, to prohibit the relationship from continuing Ways of knowing if its Parental Alienation: - Blocking phone calls or any contact to the child - Returning mail and gifts - Threatening legal action against you - Moving out of the state - Making the child scared of the parent - Not informing the other parent of activities - Telling the child that the other parent doesnt care about them The family court takes way to long to address cases like mine and Julians, and they dont really have a system in place to protect the alienated parent and child in the short term. The alienator can keep their child away, and do as they please in this area of Family Law, before any real attempts are made to make them accountable by law, and bring the child forward to be reunited with the alienated parent. I MISS MY JULIAN is here to share the personal journey with Australia and the world, of father MARK DA COSTA & son JULIAN DA COSTA, as we both venture into the dark waters of PARENTAL ALIENATION, and try to reunite legally and fairly as father and son. Along the way I would like to share my thoughts, tips and ideas that may help you through your own case of Parental Alienation. HANDY TIPS • Set up a separate email account that you use to send and receive any information in regards to your child and his/her ongoing care between you and the other parent. • Document everything you do on a daily basis, to refer to later when you are required to hand in affidavits to the court or answer questions. • Keep a record of every purchase and contribution you make to the other parent, and where it is possible, use a credit card/debit card or Eftpos so that the transactions can be proven and later referred to. • Stay calm and reach out to friends or industry professionals that can help centre your energies. There is nothing wrong with needing help emotionally and coping with PARENTAL ALIENATION. • Exercise and get outdoors as much as possible, and join a local gym or boot camp. Any opportunity to free the mind and body from the grief and pain you feel, will help you re-group and gather strength for new phases of the journey • Become acquainted with your local government Family Relationship Centre, and contact them once you acknowledge that the child is being withheld from you by the other parent. Sign up and attend their parenting courses like this one PARENTS NOT PARTNERS. The courses will help you, and increase your knowledge about what to do, and what not to do. Bellow are some helpful links to sites that may be able to assist you if youre finding it really hard being away from your children. Information about PARENTAL ALIENATION from the Family Law Web Guide: familylawwebguide.au/steps/pg/alienation Beyond blue - for depression and coping with grief beyondblue.org.au/get-support/get-immediate-support To see if you qualify for Legal Aid in your state and territory please visit the relevant link below: Victoria legalaid.vic.gov.au/sites/legalaid.vic.gov.au/files/vla-resource-grants-of-legal-assistance-guide-and-application-form.pdf NSW legalaid.nsw.gov.au/__data/assets/pdf_file/0016/6361/Legal-Aid-Application-Form-B-and-W.pdf Western Australia legalaid.wa.gov.au/LegalAidServices/Documents/Family%20law%20LAAF.PDF Queensland legalaid.qld.gov.au/services/Documents/LAQapplicationform.pdf South Australia lsc.sa.gov.au/resources/October_Legal_Aid%20Apply.pdf Northern Territory nt.gov.au/ntlac/ I miss my Julian would also like to welcome the following pages that have been created by other parents being alienated from their children. Please show them some love too. I miss my Kiata https://facebook/pages/I-MISS-MY-KIATA/848628058483123?fref=ts I miss my Adriana & David https://facebook/pages/I-Miss-My-Adriana-and-David/816242981770018?fref=ts I miss my Macalla https://facebook/imissmymacalla And remember finally that the advice given on I miss my Julian, is my own interpretation of the journey threw my eyes, and is not to be accepted as legal advice under any circumstances. I will endeavor to deliver my side of the story with complete transparency and honest point of view. Please SHARE this page on Facebook and to any parent that you know is currently going through Parental Alienation. Thank You Mark & Julian Da Costa ❤️ #Iloveyoujulian #nevergiveup #changefamilylawnow #imissmyjulian #familycourt #sharedcustody #parentalalienationsyndrome
Posted on: Thu, 09 Oct 2014 03:41:12 +0000
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