What I have learned in 2014: 1. if you really want to know a person. Sit, be quiet and listen. If all they do is talk about other folks negative qualities The person speaking is insecure with themselves. judge mental attitude will hold you back. 2. Please dont respond to negative behavior or actions. It has taken me along time to realize that some people just want to get a rise out of you. The more you smile and dont allow there behavior(everything except you puttin yo hands on me..we cool). to affect your mood or your being. they will either leave you alone or everyone will see they high school and doing kiddy shit. 3. Dont allow people to dump their negative or repeat conversations in your lap. You are busy and dont have time for cry babies or hand holders. I can admit i whine at time but the quicker you can get it out and over with... the easier it will be move to the next step. 4. you never know what the next person has done or will do. people will lie, cheat, and steal to make themselves look good. Dont talk with people who are friends or befriending people that you dont get along with or dont like you (vice versa). if everything situation you are in requires an explanation then you are messy. 5. Being strong is not always a good quality. People try to drain you with there issues because on the surface nothing really phases you...dont do it. Say awe damn thats messed up...lets pray about it right now... see how many people pray or just move around...either way its a win-win for you. 6. Hard work can pay off. In every area of life there will be a mountain to climb, a battle to fight, or a fear to conquer. If every time you get scared, tired, or frustrated you quit ... then you will never get past where you are in life right now.
Posted on: Sat, 27 Dec 2014 13:56:57 +0000
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