What is the one thing that changed my life forever Money My own money How does that sound to u Do u feel yikes how can she write that Then all the more reason u need to read this The problem is the association we have with money Greed / crass/ show offs / lack of humility Or is it ability to create memorable exp/ putting a smile on others / able to pursue your passion / simply enjoy Whatever your association Money will amplify that in you If ure good the good will multiply If ure not that will show So always remember money makes no one good or bad It only brings out what is there already For me Ive always had money Rich dad onto rich husband Money had no real meaning However over time i started to realise a hidden truth The one whos money u depend on starts to in many ways consciously or unconsciously make crucial decisions of your life MONEY= FREEDOM The point is not are they good decisions or bad The point is that they are not your decisions and that troubled me From my watch to my car my house to my sofa the servants to the holidays guess who had all the power Now fortunately I have nice men in my life yet I felt anger I see fathers controlling sons till almost age 50 Its intolerable I see husbands controlling wives forever Sons and wives complaining all their life that its their right and the blah blah Only one advise Go make yourself financially independent or resign to your fate I wish life was fair ..... When I said money changed my life forever What really changed my life was my ability to control my life My ability to make choices right or wrong Money was never my agenda I started out because I wanted to know who the real Puja was beyond being all the roles mom wife daughter I started out because I wanted respect Trust me all that comes with u having your own money It gives you the ability to fully experience your life Gifted to u or earned or even a lottery doesnt matter U should have complete rights over it And your life will never feel the same again A sense of security and rights walks in that truly changes the essence No one should be controlling your life --thats what Im actually saying but its impossible to teach this if ure financially dependant on others What I love today is I never have to ask I never have to justify I only inform I do it with respect thats because who ever you are remember gets amplified People worry if this kind of independence will cause drifts divorces or ego issues It will cause whatever it is you are hiding If the only reason ure with your husband/ father is his money Then it will cause all of that And to me thats not a relationship worth saving anyways My marriage got far more beautiful .....when I got independent because it removed that doubt in my head of why I was with him Some of u may not like this blog Because Im speaking about money as personal power And u believe ure in control And u believe ure making your choices even though u are dependant Let me tell u the honest truth Ure in denial Its great that the people around u who have power over u are not misusing it But thats not how it will always be There will come a time when youre priorities will not match and guess who will get to decide I dont earn enough to say Im 100% free But the 80% I am Atleast covers majority of my life decisions that matter to me The nice part is he now pampers me even more because now its not a necessity but a choice that he too has Dedicated to all my friends whove got the freedom=power=money to make their own decisions Im proud of you I know what it takes And the sacrifices you are making Whether you are a man And even more if you are woman Let no one tell you otherwise Its def worth it A one liner from me Money can buy you happiness if u use it to spread happiness Sorry too long but u reached here ....thats very cool !!!
Posted on: Thu, 06 Nov 2014 15:26:47 +0000
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