Whats love got to do with it? Pretty much everything until you decide that is no longer going to be the case. I have lost weight for love, I have gained weight for love I have lost weight when broken hearted, I have gained weight when broken hearted All that means is I didnt love myself enough - and that is where the change has to begin. But its a vicious circle really ... Loneliness can lead you into the temptation of comfort food - I mean no-one is seeing you naked anyway, right? But then you meet someone and you dont feel attractive and you beat yourself up for eating all that comfort food. If he or she doesnt like you, its because youre fat, right? At least that is what our head tells us and downward we spiral. I remember once I was so attracted to this guy and he wasnt exactly what you would call fit - far from it in fact. At the time, I was. Did it make a difference to me being attracted to him? No! Why? Because he was so confident in himself and he never let the weight make him doubt himself. Theres a lesson in that for all of us. I cant tell you what it is that makes someone attractive to me. I have no set criteria. Ive been attracted to tall, short, skinny, fit, chubby - dark hair, blonde hair, no hair. Its so much more than just weight! Its about something I cannot fathom - or is it? I am starting to wonder if its more about what I cant have; maybe its easier that way, I can find an excuse not to get involved. What I do know though is that being in the wrong relationship made me miserable and made me eat. Because the truth was I didnt want to be naked with him anymore! Ugh - the things we do to ourselves! There is no doubt that pain (on this topic it could be the pain of being in a stagnant - or worse - relationship or the pain of being lonely) either leads to not eating at all or leads you to comfort food, and neither option is healthy. And lets Keep it Real - it has nothing to do with not enjoying your own company, so dont throw that excuse at me. So, whats love got to do with it? Pretty much everything until you decide that is no longer going to be the case. Now get out there and take the one true love of your life - YOU - for a walk! :) (c) Dianne Traynor 21 December 2014 https://youtube/watch?v=Pu8KFlfzk3Y
Posted on: Sun, 21 Dec 2014 08:44:18 +0000
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