When I was younger, people used to say to me youre defensive whenever I contradicted them of stood up for myself. So I stopped being defensive and then people criticised me for not standing up for myself and for taking other peoples crap. The answer? Other peoples views of you are based on their model of the world and how they see it due to their vibrational patterns, not yours. Be kind, gentile, even yielding when necessary, but never be a pushover. I have learned to always stand my ground, its where ones strength lies. If you stand with your feet slightly apart, you can feel the strength of Mother Earth rising up into your torso. Further, if people think that you disagree with their criticism of you because youre in some sort of denial then only you can answer that through self examination, which, ironically, is something most of our critics seldom ever do. So can you see how unqualified they are to comment on your life? Ignore them and dont get so wound up. Develop a thick skin and say water off a ducks back. Let them be a big fish in a small pond if it makes them happy to be judgmental. Its irrelevant in the grand scheme of things. Focus on all the good and beautiful people in your life and give these idiots a wide berth. Peace, love and astronauts.
Posted on: Mon, 18 Aug 2014 06:19:34 +0000
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