When I would go to bed with a woman when I was young, I didnt realize that there were many of us in the bed at the same time. There was her and I, her parents, my parents, our past lovers and anyone else we had unfinished business with. Thats the thing about being unconscious - we cant help but bring our unresolved baggage into every other relational encounter. We imagine its just the two of us, but our projections and patterns ensure that the bed is symbolically filled with many others.Talk about an unwelcome orgy! A little hard to move around freely with so many projections on the mattress. One of the reasons we do the work to heal our past is so that we can actually create more space for intimacy. With our patterns fallen away, we stand a much better chance of holding love safe. With our projections worked through, we can actually see the beloved with clear eyes. Finally, its just the two of us...
Posted on: Sun, 08 Jun 2014 04:09:14 +0000
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