When were arguing children are listening. Some of the things you as a parent my say out of anger can hurt them deeply. Children can be easily groomed into a negative direction or a positive direction. Its natural for every child to look at their parents as heroic figures, this is why as a parent you should never bash, gossip, or talk down on the other parent in front of the child. Regardless if they are shit or not thats their hero you should never try to impose your negative opinions of their parent on them. Im sure many of us witnessed these things growing up, some of us worse than others. In more extreme cases arguments have lead to hitting or abuse. There is are usually psychological damages done to child who witnesses that. Theres a chance they might turn into an abuser, have a low self-esteem, struggle in school, struggle in their future relationships Etc... Moreover its your job as a Parent to do your best to protect your child from that. So as a Mother or Father control yourself always think child first. Easier said than done I know but try to take an argument outside, maintain respect for the other parent. Now Im not saying your child Isnt supposed to know what your have endured. I think they should to an extent. We dont want ungrateful children growing up totally naive to any hardships. But remember Charity begins at home. - #Repost from SanCopha League
Posted on: Mon, 04 Nov 2013 16:26:10 +0000
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