When you didn’t have much money, you were together as a couple, praying together and believing together. Now there is money, you have grown apart. Everybody has his own driver. There is Daddy’s room and Mummy’s room. You start sleeping apart from each other. Money becomes a tool that drives you apart. It ought not to be, make sure there is balance. Money should be a servant and not your master. If you are courting, discuss with your partner what kind of job he/she wants to do. Is it the kind of job that will keep him living in hotels all over more than living at home? Are you prepared for that? How will you bring balance into it? How will you reconcile your careers with the well-being of the marriage? Have you discussed and come to a conclusion that the most important thing in your marriage is firstly your love for God and then your love for your spouse? Do a lot of brainstorming. Let your goals and dreams be aligned. Don’t enter a relationship like a sheep being led to the slaughter all in the name of love! Wake up to reality. Before you married the sailor or the pilot, are you aware he would be gone most of the time? Don’t fall in love to the extent that you cannot make use of your brain! There are people who will marry a sailor and they are okay with it and will cope with it, but what about you that have always wanted your husband to be around you all the time?
Posted on: Wed, 23 Oct 2013 01:36:12 +0000
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