When youre feeling down and even when you are feeling up, remember to look at yourself, all you have been through to get to this point, the loves lost, the people who disappointed or hurt you and look where you are... you are still standing. Be so proud of this and let it remind you that you are much stronger than you think you are. You are still here, still standing, you may have fallen but you got up and pressed on. Ultimately no one can stop you but you. There isnt a relationship that you cannot get beyond, rejections come and go but you learn and you grow. To stay standing living in the feeling of happiness you have to see the good in the experiences youve had, the lessons you have learned and the wisdom that you now live by. None of this kind of growth comes without an emotional price. It all does, but resilience is what makes us get creative in finding new ways to love ourselves and make our lives happy and workable. We are never more creative then when we are in the midst of trying to survive something painful. We have to count on ourselves. We can have support, of course, but no one can travel your pain for you. You have to travel it on your own emotionally and this is how you heal it and come out the other side. You learn along the way that anger serves you nothing but more pain. Complaining robs you of resilience and fear keeps you from trying. When life takes you down and your only choice is to move and grow this is when you find that you are much more powerful than you had ever thought. It is this part of you that makes sure you are STILL STANDING!!!
Posted on: Tue, 07 Oct 2014 11:00:00 +0000
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