Women spoil men & their habits! Universally it’s known and accepted – ‘Men are from Mars and women are from Venus’. But ever wondered what goes in making men the way they are. The habits, traits, behavior, preferences etc that most men are accustomed to – it’s nothing else but a byproduct of how they have been raised and treated (read pampered) by women at every stage of their lives. Mothers, sisters, girlfriends, wives and even daughters – every relationship that a woman lives a man – she ends up churning out a spoilt brat out of this strange species. I don’t remember the last time my brother got himself a glass of water. Just screaming his lungs out that ‘I want water’ and mom would rush inside his room – at his service. His room is a sight every morning when he gets ready for work. Towel lying on the bed, clothes kept all over the room, comb and other basics spilled across the room’s length and breadth and who comes to clear it all – mom, I or my sister. If brothers were from hell, well, dads are no better. Agreed they come back home after a hectic day at work but I am amazed why they never realize that even their wife is a working woman too, who slogs since morning balancing the household chores and then office work. Acting to be loving husbands, they would very politely demand for something delicious in the menu they wish to eat on a particular night and reciprocating as a caring wife, moms would readily cook for him – at your service always. No wonder why most hubbies get used to such royal treatment by their wives. Only if we could be like our moms and please men the way they wished. Sigh! And let’s not forget this trait among men of expecting and demanding is in the blood, for their moms have spoiled them enough and now it’s the wife who has to face the brunt. Talk of a committed relationship - why it is always (or most often) the girlfriend who would take the first step to patch up whenever there’s a fight. Why a girl is always expected act as the peacemaker after an argument has taken place… and she only allows the guy to take due advantage of it all the time. Forgiving and moving on is like a trait girls get from their ancestors and guess what, men just love to take it for granted. Maybe that’s the reason why most men are not accustomed to saying sorry or apologize even when they know they are at fault. They know it would be forgiven and things would normalize within seconds forget days. All courtesy goes to the love, care and affection in relationships. That’s not it. I always hear people say that girls take time to get ready. Okay! Agreed but do men really value time? Why is it that their 5 minutes would stretch to one hour and then also they would shamelessly walk in with a smile on their face without any sign of feeling sorry! Why? Only because the girl who has been waiting for hours won’t “react” and would just “let go” in a bid to avoid frictions! At times, I feel men just don’t do anything only because women don’t let them. Be it cooking, washing or ironing clothes, keep their room clean, handle their own things, help in basic household chores etc… women love to pamper men and not give them the pain of doing anything that can alter their spoiled habits. So why blame men! Whatever a woman does, the way she acts or behaves – it has an accumulative effect on how the men would be and the habits he would pick. If we won’t learn to give it back to men and teach them the reason lessons, they would never grow and would continue to live in that little cocoon without wishing to come out of the comfort zone. Well, high time women change their actions and reactions towards men before it gets too late to even regret.
Posted on: Sun, 11 Aug 2013 02:57:28 +0000
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