Wow this has me in tears..too adorable it reminds me of my Step Dad JJ and I when I was a little girl and growing up! Fathers, you have no idea how important it is to make sure you spend time with your children especially those precious little girls. They need to know growing up they have a man who loves them and respects them and their mother and siblings. How are they suppose to grow up and know how to be treated by a man if your not there or if you mistreat their mother or even step mother. Please, be there for them in their every day life if your not with their mother anymore thats ok too, just be there for them still. All it takes to show your love is to let them know, stop by their house, take them out to eat of go to the beach or park, read them Books, take them to church, always tell them how beautiful and handsome they are, encourage them every day and let them talk about their dreams and want they want to be and do in life. Dont talk bad about their mother/step mother or father or step father in front of them, show your children how to be loved and to love others, teach them we are human and we all make mistakes, but we are to forgive. Let your daughters know how they are suppose to treat woman and with respect, how they are to respect their body. Fathers, girls remember so much from growing up and if your not there or you make promises and dont keep them or you around for awhile then gone for a couple of weeks or months or years and you dont see or even speak to them they remember that. Please spend time with your children even a phone call, or video call on a app, send them a letter in the mail, make sure you buy them something on their birthday or holiday even if its just a card, you dont understand when your not there it truly does so much hurt to our hearts. Another thing these days a lot of people arent with their kids father or mother still but that should never stop you from doing your part and being a father/mother to your children. Those other people didnt make your child but their are great men who step up and accept those children as if they were their own flesh and blood and love them and accept them for who they are and teach them how to live life and set an example. It is ok to have step parents sometimes they are more involved in the kids life than their own mother or father. But that doesnt give no reason for the kids father/mother to not help support their own kids they make with everyone and to call and check up on them. Because your little girls grow up to be your teenage girl then your young lady then your woman and she has kids of her own and makes you a grandfather. So its so important to be there for your daughter to always tell her you love her and miss her and when you promise something please do it she will remember it for her whole life trust me..battling my own battle of hurt and someone not being there for me and who isnt still to this day! Another thing just because you werent there their whole life doesnt mean by when they get older you can forget about your other kids and treat the one you just met like they are a piece of gold and show favoritism and disown your own family. They grow up having hurt and pain and so many questions of why and always have scars . Its so important to be involved in your kids life you cant go back and take back your words and you cant go back and fix the past and you sure cant stop time or try to make up everything you missed since she was a baby, toddler, elementary, high school, college, becoming a parent, getting married, her first steps, her first time learning to write or ride her bike, her first boyfriend, her first sport game, her first heartbreak from her daddy or boyfriend, she wont know how her husband is suppose to treat her, you will miss so much even her wedding. So parents just dont get it how much hurt you have caused to your children and still are.
Posted on: Mon, 01 Sep 2014 11:41:41 +0000
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