Yep totally agree...So dishonesty is?.. Sadly from my observation honesty is a hard pill to swallow for many as it challenges our ideas of romantically ideal realities, It can shatter expectations, destroy false images and beliefs and leave us in a place of having to face the naked reality, which is both beautiful and terrifying all at once. Honesty calls us into a rawness that we often dont want to face. To be honest means to learn to be more of the fullness of who and what we are. It takes the holding of paradoxes. To to move through tension to resolution into higher outcome without attachment to how things should or shouldnt be in the process. The movement and acceptance into what is from a bigger place (Which is sometimes allot more complex, empty, illogical or painfully deep, overwhelming, exciting or any number of strong feelings than we would like to THINK and FEEL it is). This is especially the case with intimate relationships, It takes a mature heart and mind to really live in the truth of honest intimacy. To allow yourself to be naked in your truth and allow others this freedom also. The reality is that most relationships are based on the addiction to the false constructs of who we think someone is or what they represent to us of worth. Its the true love that cuts through the false illusions of love that lasts and its is free from any containment. It has no need for need or ownership or validation. It is not tainted by romantic attachment and dirty desire. It just is...Free and loving, expressed and non expressed. What if what you thought love was, was a complex projection and identification mechanism to feel like you are ok? To validate your social programming of family, self and place within society? Who really owns your love then? Who shaped your images of love? What if the ideals of romantic love were actually mostly a desire fulfill a whole bunch of your false self constructs? To feel special, to feel sacred and chosen, to be adored? All beautiful things yet also all as dangerous heroin. If you can ride them without attachment wonderful but you have to be honest with yourself and the ones you share your love with. If you realised that your model of love was more of a comfortable prison than an infinite sky of freedom could you let it go? Could you just be in real love with the moment as it is, Holding all the paradoxes without excess emotions or attachments? Can you be real with yourself and just look in the mirror and see you as you in all your godly and ungodliness? In all your beauty and disgust and just be? Can you see and sit with others as they are? To understand and give them freedom even if they want to cut your head off? What if you had no guarantee that if were truly honest you would experience anything but reality its self after that point? Could you be honest with yourself and your beloved and say I dont know how to love you I just am LOVE? And yeah Honesty is also simple, innocent, cute and beautiful.
Posted on: Sat, 05 Jul 2014 02:25:42 +0000
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