You dont have to spend your life around people who want to bring you down, abuse you, be mean towards you, sit in judgement of you. It really doesnt matter what relation they are to you, who they are in the community, or how much you are meant to love them. Ive noticed that people who emotionally bully others are always the most angry when their victims refuse to continue receiving their treatment, or treat them in exactly the same way they treat others. You can forgive, let it go, and move away. Some may choose to stay and be loving towards them for all eternity, even though the other has no desire to join them in that love. Personally, I dont see the point. Its not my purpose to drag everyone kicking and screaming into love... its mine to create an energy in which I can live in a loving energy without making choices for myself that mean I have to apply continual protective screens. Freely.... I know they make me stronger, but Ive learned those lessons already, and one of them was learning that I dont have to keep learning them when Ive already got the lesson. Why chose it for your life when you dont need to? Its like eating poising daily just to prove that you can heal your body... When you do choose to move away rather than remain a victim, emotional blackmail is fairly likely. They may attempt to take you into your guilt and shame so that you give in to their demands... and if you dont, they are likely to speak badly of you. Its all part of it. Their growth and yours... The second part of this journey, is achieving the moving away process without taking all that guilt with you. If you do take it with you, then you have not moved away, nor learned the lesson. They are still holding you firmly. This was a big part of my journey... Life is filled with beautiful simplicity when we apply these authentically. The things that make them difficult are the emotional games. See through them, see them for what they are, and they no longer have a hold on you. And you are even able to move away with forgiveness in your heart.
Posted on: Mon, 19 May 2014 11:23:51 +0000
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