You feel a lot of love for someone and they do not take it. What do you do? -Get Frustrated -Turn the love into hatred and wish for revenge. -Again and again remind them how much you love them and how little they love you. -Become fussy and cranky -Throw tantrums -Feel humiliated and try to protect your respect. -Resolve never to love again. -Feel hurt and mistreated -Try to be aloof and indifferent … and you have seen that none of these work! They only make it worse. what is the way out of this? How can you maintain your lovingness? -Have patience. -Be centered and limit your expression of love. Sometimes over expression of love puts people off. -Change your expression of love. -Take it for granted that they love you and accept their style of expression -Genuinely acknowledge their love for you. This will turn your demand into gratefulness. The more grateful you are in life, more love comes your way. -Know that hurt is part of love and take responsibility for it. -Realize that when you move away from your center, you will feel miserable and that the nature of worldliness is misery.
Posted on: Sat, 30 Aug 2014 05:51:29 +0000
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