Your time is Valuable, it is the most Precious thing you have, more so than physical wealth. Why would you spend it on those who dont deserve it? Why would you spend it on those who dont Appreciate it? We have lost sight of what it means to be happy, of what it takes to be happy. We allow others to shape our world with ideas of what happiness should be, instead of seeing Happiness for what it really is. Happiness is not just a feeling you get when you have your favorite dessert, or when you see your crush across the room, or even when you win a prize. Its also not when you go out dancing, or drinking, because at the end of the day you accomplished nothing. It is but an empty feeling, which is why those actions require repetition. Happiness is much more complex than that. Havent you seen those people who seem to have it all and cannot get life straight, are depressed or even suicidal? Yet look at those others who dont seem to have much of anything at all yet seem to be the happiest people in the world? Ever wondered why that is? Happiness is in everything you do no matter how small or insignificant it might be, an emotion which can arise from the smallest of actions and stand up to the tallest of challenges. It is being able to smile even in the toughest of times. Is being able to look around for the smallest glimmer of light in the middle of the storm and realize no matter what turmoil engulfs you, it is only temporary. It is being able see the good in any situation, even if the world tells you there isnt any. Happiness is when at the end of the day nothing can bring you down. Now, do not misunderstand me, you will be knocked down on the journey, many times in fact; However, what matters is being able to get up, shake it off and keep moving forward Never giving up. It takes hard work and sacrifice to be happy. You cant expect for someone to make you happy if you cant do so yourself. You cannot depend on others to shape your world, take control and do something about it. Surround yourself with those who appreciate you, who support you and believe in you, for those are the ones who will pull up and move you closer to true happiness. Dont change for someone, change for yourself, be better than the person you were yesterday, only then can you really grow. But dont sacrifice your happiness for someone elses, true happiness is reciprocal. Give your 100 % and expect nothing in return, who really appreciates you will do the same, only then a symbiotic relationship can arise, and true happiness can thrive. Each working together towards a common goal and doing everything needed to achieve it. Only then will you see what happiness really means, never thinking about yourself yet always feeling fulfilled and satisfied. Having someone who will enjoy your company in the good times, and will stand by you and support you in the bad times. No matter how rough things get, never doubting each other. Always seeing the good in everything that happens even if the bad seems to overshadow things. Strip away Pride, Anger, Doubt...all you need is faith, faith that the world you are building for yourself is that much closer with every action you take, with every smile you give. Those who deserve to be in that world with you will help you create it, and those who expect to enjoy of that magnificent world you have envisioned, yet take little or no part in its creation do not deserve to be in it. Time is a limited resource, its scarcity is what makes it so valuable. Dont squander it, make sure every second of it means something worthwhile, only then will you be happy...
Posted on: Sat, 23 Aug 2014 04:07:04 +0000