having second thought posting this in here since its an open group and my non-member/believer friends can see it but I think this is the largest group of empaths here in fb... and sorry in advance if this will be long... Ive read that empathic manipulation is bad, but what if it randomly came out without you having control over it? Im not using any abusing method like on what the article is saying, its just a normal conversation, although Im feeling an increase on my emotions but Im good at hiding what I feel so its not coming out on my face or voice... let me give an example... one time I was about to fail on a class and my prof wanted to talk to me, while talking to her Im feeling sad and hoping she will reconsider since I dont know what I would say to my mother, buy I was careful not to show what Im feeling with my prof. After the conversation I found out that she will not fail me or my other classmates and I got my card with a passing grade, but Im the only one who got my card while the others have to do a special project... thats only one example and as I tried to remember what other situations happened to me like this its all random but everytime Im feeling a huge wave of a certain emotions on myself... I tell its random since most of the time I dont get a good result when talking to someone, like on a job interview, what do you guys think should I do? should I try to control what I feel on every conversation to maybe stop it from coming out and manipulating whoever it is Im talking too but that can be hard sometimes but that might suppress it or should I experiment on it, talk about it to a friend and let him/her know about it that might make me have a control on it so that it will not comeout at random but if I do that Im not going to be sure if thats her/his choice agreeing or mine... thanks in advance
Posted on: Sat, 28 Jun 2014 01:39:31 +0000