hello Aunt Tina, pls hide my id & notify me wen u post. am 31 yrs old and my hubby too. weve been married for 5 yrs now, & I keep wondering wether or not I made a mistake marrying this man, reason being that his values and mine seem to b drawing further apart, he is keeping things from me & am nt sure I can trust him anymore! imagine receiving bailiffs in your home to recover some debt u have no idea about, over which he was summoned to court & u were clueless! talk abt frustration!! dont get me wrong people, I do love my hubby, I feel I have a duty to support him in becoming the man he is destined by God to b, Ive been to college & am currently studying BA in DS, bt he has no tertiary education at all. I have been trying to support him do some studies, bt he keeps jumping from one school to another, and I feel he is wasting money, is he jst untrainable or he is failing to cope with school and work simultaneously whilst I am managing quiet well? talk abt priorities & making plans for the future, he wud nt tell the truth abt his finances, prompting me to get a loan 4 tyms bigger than his thinking wen we put our money together, we cud kill 2 birds with one stone- get a house & take care of our transport needs. I feel betrayed, and ive lost my trust in him, am constantly thinking of taking my two kids away from this stressful union to start afresh. I keep thinking that I will b working hard in vain if I stayed with this man, trying to secure a beta future for our children and he will keep taking me several steps backwards! what is ur advice people? pliz dont comment if u have nothing meaningful to say!
Posted on: Thu, 23 Oct 2014 03:48:45 +0000
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