hi aunty tina, please post for me, hide my id, thanks. I am a 26 year old lady working with a good job, I starting seeing this guy whom I believed was single, good looking and caring and we spent a lot of time together. I noticed he wore a fashionable kind of ring but I didnt notice on which finger it was on. i noticed a childs photo on his phone , thats the time he told me he had a daughter and every time I asked where he lived he d tell me I cant go there coz he lived with his baby mama. I was confused and touched that he had not told me everything about him. I fell in love with this guy, months later I discovered that I was pregnant, all unexpectedly, I told him I was going to get rid of it but he convinced me to keep it and my close friends advised me not to remove it , coz I could maybe die in the process and that every child is a blessing from the lord. I agreed, I thought he was very supportive and responsible. then a few days later I discover that this guy had 4 kids and is MARRIED. I was hurt and didnt know wat to do. I screamed at him, and insulted him, he lied to me. all this while he made me think he was just living with his baby mama coz she didnt have anywhere to go. I felt foolish and naïve, I have never been hurt like this before. Even though i was bitter, we finally had meetings, he paid for damage and all. am almost due, and then am thinking once my child is born, I do not want anything to do with this man, he will support his child and all but me and him are through. because even during the course of my pregnancy he has done nothing for me and my unborn child, just lies and more lies. now people of the forum, I was thinking that once my child is born I should go and see his wife and apologize, because I cant live with myself knowing I have hurt a fellow woman.i feel guilty everyday and sometimes regret meeting this man. I have asked for forgiveness from God.i can actually take care of this child even without him. please advise
Posted on: Mon, 20 Jan 2014 10:40:41 +0000
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