~mlm ...Watch for these signs of the mean cycle. 1. While this part is far easier to notice, you might miss it if you have no prior experience to this type of thing. Remember too, that most outsiders really do not see the person as you will by now. There is a public face and a private face. You have now entered the real lair of the narcissist. The mask is off, even though they dont know it, and you are seeing who they really are. 2. You might feel off-balance and notice a change in your sleeping behavior. You might become withdrawn and feel sad. Things that once made you happy, now have no appeal to you anymore. Your partner, seems thrilled that you are now a better girlfriend or boyfriend if you have complied with their demands. That means that they have the power. 3. You begin to worry about what they think about your choices and looks. They might imply that you should change your hair or clothing. Never do that for anyone. Love yourself enough to be who you really are inside. They will try to convince you to change, often for the bad. 4. They insult you and imply that everything that they told you to do, was your idea and not theirs. Again, this is more crazy-making. 5. They might say that you are all about drama. That, is called projection. They are projecting their identity and problems onto you. This is the ultimate stage of a narcissists power cycle. They are peaking and ready to move on to the next stage. Now, you are the weakling and they are strong. They sought you out because you were powerful, famous or successful in your field. Remember that the narcissist is an insecure, self-defeating power-monger. They are only harming themselves. Get away when you see these signs and never feel bad for leaving. If they dont let it end and try to reach you again, call the police. That is called stalking. ... How The Narcissist Brainwashes Yahoo Voices.
Posted on: Sat, 01 Feb 2014 06:50:05 +0000
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