oba some guys be like oba how???? well, i know you have someone special whom you wanted to be in love with, you tried your level best but all in vain... the girl rejected you n now your trying to black mail her! you talking ill about her bt youve forgot that THE ALMIGHTY GOD IS WATCHING YOU BROTHERS, LET ME GIVE U SM ADVISE Know that rejection is a common reality.If you want to get dates, youll need to ask girls out. If you ask girls out, youll eventually be rejected. Its a simple fact - rejection is a near-unavoidable part of the dating process Temper your expectations.Remember that you arent entitled to a yes response. You are, however, entitled to politeness and civility, provided you extend your crush the same entitlements. Avoid infatuation.No one is perfect, but its hard to remember this if you have suffer from infatuation (commonly called puppy love.) Constructing an ideal version of someone before you know them well is a sure-fire path to disappointment. If youre rejected, it will be crushing, and if you get the date, she wont live up to your impossible expectations. Remember that everyone, no matter how attractive, has faults. This will make it easier to work up the courage to ask her out and it will make a potential rejection much less painful. Remember that your crush is a human being.If a girl asked you out and you rejected her, would it be an indication that you hated her? Probably not. Like men, women have complex emotions. A rejection might not be an indication that she doesnt like you - it might simply be an indication that she was having a bad day. Always remember that the object of your affections is a living, breathing, feeling human like you. Leave yourself other social options.Maintain your friendships. Rejections are easier to deal with if you have friends to fall back on . If youre single, its also perfectly acceptable to harbor more than one crush at once. This way, if one girl rejects you, youll still be able to pursue others. Realize that rejection is not a personal indictment.In most cases, rejection isnt a judgement of your character. If a girl decides she doesnt want to date you, it doesnt mean she dislikes you or even finds you unattractive, it doesnt mean you ugly. Every instance of rejection is different, but the common thread is that you are not rejected. Rather, your request to date is rejected, move on n act maturely Focus on your personal aspirations.After heartbreak, it can be rewarding to devote time to improving yourself and pursuing your interests Over time, you will become more attractive and naturally meet people who like the same things as you. pray to God help you n give you some wholl love you. remember love is all about freedom not force! and being rejected doesnt mean that everyone will reject you...everythng happens for a reason, God is busy writing your love story stop acting lyk a boy and start acting lyk a man. stop destroying our sisters name... stop giving false info abt our sisters. pliz brothers take a step n act accordingly.
Posted on: Fri, 10 Oct 2014 21:04:59 +0000
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