people are facing hard times after breaking up,with me I solely made 4 tips for moving forward when your relationship has ended,which I believe they are powerful..... •Never look at a relationship (or anything else) that hasn’t worked out as a failure -Often its the seed of a current or past failure that fuels you to the very success that youve always dreamed of. It sounds trite, but there’s always something you can learn from every experience. •Turn from the past and look toward the future ...YOUR future It’s easy to get stuck in the past when a relationship ends. You will begin to heal and move forward when you begin thinking and writing about what you want for your life, today and in the future.Setting goals is very important in this process of turning to your new life. •Take responsibility for your part—no more and no less -When a relationship ends, very often we want to assign fault and blame, either to ourselves or to the other person. When you are in a healthy relationship with another person, both people are equally responsible for the relationship. If a relationship ends, the same thing usually applies. No matter who appears to be at fault when challenges come up, both people are responsible.You can only heal when you let go of assigning “fault” and “blame” and focus on what you want to change about yourself and what you want to create in a relationship. •Learn from and give thanks for the lessons that you learned and change your attitude.As painful as it is to hear, the truth is that everything in your life (including your relationships) is a result of the choices you have made up until now. If you dont like the circumstances in your life or relationships, decide to make other choices.This could mean changing your attitude from blame to acceptance. It could mean opening up to bringing new people into your life.it could mean deciding to be a better person in your current relationships. It could mean being grateful for what you have. When a relationship ends, it’s tempting to close down and vow never to get in another relationship again or even rush into a new relationship. Instead,i invite you to take the time to learn from past relationships, be in gratitude for where you are and start moving toward the relationships and life that you really want.
Posted on: Thu, 11 Dec 2014 08:40:16 +0000
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