|||-Its Relationship Monday! Inbox a great relationship question along with a number and Ill answer on my wall-|||| #1010 - Ive been divorced for 15 years and been abstaining for the past 3 years. Now that my youngest is getting ready to leave home. What its the best way to start dating and get back in the dating game when you are what they say stuck in their ways for so long. A: First off let me celebrate your dedication to abstinence. Your commitment to the Word of God is and will continue to yield mega spiritual and physical benefits. ((((applause)))). I’d say the best way to get back in the game is to (I’m a list person so please allow me to list it) 1. Sign a covenant with yourself. Stating the boundaries that you will establish once you’ve met someone. This is YOUR contract to you. And your celibacy must be included as well. 2. Realize that the game has changed a little since you were last out there. This is something that I had to come to grips with once I started dating again. There is a certain common good naturedness that is missing in many people today both in and out of the church. Church men and women are still getting their minds renewed and have to chisel through a lot of things before be whole. Be careful . 3. Enjoy the process. Don’t be in too quick of a hurry to seal the deal. Establish a great friendship first. Someone that’s worthy of a few conversations and maybe a diner. Enjoy the conversation. Be open and listen people will tell you all you need to know if you listen. 4. Make sure that you have dealt with all of YOU before entering back into the scene. Just because you’ve been single that long doesn’t mean you are whole and it’s nothing like a relationship that will reveal where you are emotionally. Deal with YOU first. 5. Take it slow. NO rush.
Posted on: Mon, 02 Jun 2014 23:25:30 +0000
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