12 Desperate Things You Should Never Do To Keep A Man 7. Compromise On Your Personality In an attempt to please a man, many ladies of nowadays have compromised a lot on their personalities, making unnecessary adjustments and change of lifestyles to suit into that of the guy. Does doing a thing like this give an assurance of a long lasting love and relationship? Because he smokes, drinks and clubs doesnt mean u should learn to do same to perfectly get alone wit him. When Relationship Counselors advise on the relevant of adjustment in a relationship and marriage, they never said you should adjust n create spaces for worthless habits and attitudes as those named above. Some ladies feel doing just all the things a guy desires will win his heart easily. Hence, you tend to see them beginning to live a life that is not a reflection of their real n natural selves. All in a bit to keep him. As a woman, you hav a life and a right to live your life. Life is rather too short to live it carelessly in the name of LOVE. Your daily life should be a clear and vivid reflection of the REAL YOU, so that pple could easily form and make the right opinion and impression about the You they see each day! And not a Mary in Charles clothings... So, what becomes of Mary when Charles has finished his mission in her life takes his leave? Let a Man accept or reject you for Who You Are. No need faking your personality or adjusting it unnecessarily just to look fitting to him. Keep your moral standard high, hav ur personal principles and let him either accept them or go! That doesnt mean u should be arrogant, rude or over strict. Even the baddest guy in town would go searching for a Good Girl when he is ready to marry. Or havent you the Club type of Guys going to church to find Churchy Sisters as wives? Such is life! So, never allow desperation to force you into doing things you least imagined yourself doing. He can drink, smoke, club, dress like anyhow n exhibit all manner of lifestyle, You dont need to join him in doing all that but rather tryin to see how u could change him. Be more focused on training yourself into a woman he wont see a wife to marry! Cos, some of such things may deduce ur with and value at the end. RelMar Foundation ...Strengthening love, building homes
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