7 Negative People You Need to Ignore For You To Succeed & Be Happy 1. The hopelessly hostile drama queen- Some people love to stir up controversy and drama for no apparent reason. Don’t buy in to their propaganda. Stay out of other people’s drama and don’t needlessly create your own. Don’t spew hostile words at someone who spews them at you. Keep your composure and replace the stink of confrontation with the fragrance of resolution. The louder the opposition wants to yell, and the more drama they want to stir, the calmer and more confidently you need to think and speak. Don’t let them get to you.. 2. The person you have failed to please a hundred times before- Some people are impossible to please; you will not be able to break through to them no matter what you do. Accept this harsh as a fact of life. Throughout your lifetime some people will discredit you, disrespect you and treat you poorly for no apparent reason at all. Don’t consume yourself with trying to change them or win their approval. 3. The pessimist who always dumps on your dreams - Stop giving credit to those who discredit your dreams. These people are Negative people 2punishing your potential by slowly extinguishing your inner flame with their watered down vision of what you are capable of achieving. I 4. The manipulator- Beware of manipulators, or bullies, who try to use their negativity to intimidate and manipulate your thoughts. These people routinely prioritize their own feelings and needs over and above everyone else’s. They will demand that you bend over to help them, but if, heaven forbid, you need help, they will not be able to stand it. 5. The stubborn one who insists you should be someone else- In the long run, it’s always better to be disrespected for who you are than respected for who you are not. In fact, the only relationships that work well are the ones that make you a better person without changing you into someone other than yourself, and without preventing you from outgrowing the person you used to be. 6. The unforgiving friend who refuses to forgive you for your mistakes- The most honorable thing is not to never make mistakes, but to admit to them when you do make them, and then to follow through and do your best to make the wrong things right. Mistakes are part of growing. T 7. The inner critic- Yes, sadly, the inner critic is inside YOU. Unrelenting self-criticism often goes hand in hand with unhappiness and anxiety, and it’s completely unjustified. There is no reason to be your own biggest critic
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