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At first i refused him even when he said i am not coming to date u but marriage. i still did nt accept his proposals. but when my father died,he was everywhr during the burial,without been asked, he came to my village with his caterers and a live band for my fathers burial. though i rejected all his gifts and money yet he still push on to do what hes doing. my mother asked who he was , he said my mother should nt border hersf now that later she will. then after the burial i returned to work,he came as usual. something inside of me tells me he was genuine but i was scare of men like that and i dont want to fall into d same ditch that led me have a baby without a father thereby making me a single mother. though it was a difficulty decision i have to take but i cnt remain like this forever i am still a young girl in my late 20s so i shouldnt allow my yesterday to ruin my today i thought for a long time.finally i decided to give him a chance. so we started dating,he was so loving, caring even buy things for my baby as if he is the biological father. that act alone made me removed every doubts, and my trust and love increased and gave my all to him. and when he proposed again i didnt hesitate to say yes yes. immediately we proceed for our marriage rites. 3 months after into our marriage,the animal nature in him started coming out,unusual changes,things he told me he doesnt do that is what i see him do and when i confront him in love, that day i will receive the beating of my life. initially i dint believe it till i was battered, locked outside under the rain at the middle of the nite. at this time i didnt kn was pregnant,its was a neighbour who heard my cry that came to my rescue and she called my mother i was rush to the hospital there the doctor said i was pregnant and she also advice me to avoid any work that will give me stress bcos of the baby. i was kept in the hospital for bed rest for a month, my once loving and caring husband did not call neither did he visit to kn if am alive or dead even when he was told about the pregnancy.i went back to my house after the doctor discharged me but with strong warning. the situations grew worse each passing day.i cant take this anymore so i had to go and stay with my mother even though i knew marriage is for better and for worse. on the day i delivered his baby,he was called for the hospital bills but he did not respond. thank God for my family who stood by me and the little money i have saved from my salary that enable me pay the hospital bills. Now my baby is 4years, he nw remember that he had a child with me.he call me that he want his child after 4years and 5months.
Posted on: Sat, 16 Aug 2014 21:02:53 +0000

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