Certain people can have a detrimental physiological effect on you regardless of how much you love them and you must be able to walk away from them. If they follow you then you must consider that they are reluctant to let go. This does not mean that they love you necessarily, this can simply be due to the human tendency to seek that which is familiar and does not need to be a positive familiarity or with good intentions. Men beat or neglect their wives, girls lead guys on (A.K.A. not knowing what she wants, A.K.A. unwilling to let go because she still has feelings for you etc) or sleep with the best friend, all cause emotional trauma to some degree. In these cases you must give them a reason. If he neglects or beats you repeatedly then call the police, commence dating someone who doesnt and file for divorce. Do not try to claim that its not that easy as you get older, logic dictates that you would be better off alone than being beaten and/or neglected even if your claim is true. Embrace each phase of your life and never stop living. If she has lead you on then explain to her that you no longer want her in your life, if she wont stop calling then decide what will work best to get rid of her and apply it with fervour. If she needs to see you with another woman then make it obvious and dont spare her feelings, if she shrinks in the face of your anger then get angry and let her tell herself that you are wrong and not a good guy because as long as she thinks shes not losing anything valuable she will have suddenly realized what she wants. The majority, or at least half, of a persons energy should be directed towards their goals, building a great life and contributing to society and never wholly on another individual. If you are so wrapped up in them and it hurts then you are possibly excessively emotionally masochistic and wasting your life, if you are so wrapped up in them and you are blissfully content then you are possibly complacent and wasting your life. Consider this. Go.
Posted on: Sat, 05 Apr 2014 00:22:57 +0000
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