Dear Brother Zahoor Ahmed Rajput, Brother, do accept my apologies from the depth of my heart, for, un-willingly though and quite half-heartedly enough, I confronted you several times and believe you me that every time, I thought not to do that again and just ignore what you ever say, but by default, perhaps, I can hardly ignore what is not right and hence I couldn’t help myself to put my comments upon, whenever you wrote or endorsed something, which shouldn’t have been done in quite opposite of what you did, more especially by an elderly grown-up person like you. Brother let me say and submit that there are generally 4 types of people who use face-book, viz; 1) Teen-agers and people in early youth, who write anything anyhow. I don’t mind whatever they say as they have their own company and people to inter-act with and all such write-ups are not meant for people like you and me. But suppose they are too erratic in their submission on anything, it is rather obligatory on us to comment on it to give them a right direction on the subject, whatever. 2) There are people who have a certain specified mission(s), political/religious/ or some other types and they are always mono-directional and hence may be read but not to be confronted, mostly, as they are rigid in whatever views they have and can’t be changed and since their readers also know them hence they don’t pose any damage(s) to anybody. Let them go their way, read them if you want, pick out of it if anything reasonably good and of some worth and leave all rest as well as them, on their own and let them go their own way. 3) There are some, “subject matter specialists”, who spent their lives in working in a certain specific field(s), most of those of some technical nature and hence whatever they have known and discovered in life, want to share with others alike for the guidance of those who are either working in the same field or want to know something about that specific technical subject. Generally they are truthful people and write whatever they know is right about their findings and the subject of their life time working. So reading them, at all times when a chance be or every time, whatever, doesn’t harm you in any way, rather would give you some enlightenment on a certain subject which you never had a chance to read about, otherwise. 4) There are people like you, who are assumed to have spent ages, that too very thoroughly as you appear in your picture, and seem to have learnt a lot about all several varied subjects and hence they do comment whatever they come across. Their write-ups are since a kind of coaching to all kind of people on matters of religions/social/economic and cultural aspects of life whatever they talk about, hence, are read very keenly. A person not aware of the subject you are commenting upon will obviously take your words as guaranteed and taking as a good guidance for him/her, while those who know that subject would judge the health of what you said and in-turn endorse it or correct it if whole or part of it is incorrect or go ahead to explain further, if you didn’t go to all the details of it. In all such case, what is desired from you is a write-up coming from a sublime, wise-man/very positively educative and without any or all dirt collect from the road which common people do to impress others for their depth of knowledge. Our prophet said, “if you are saying something with a reason that you know something better to tell others, it has rewards for you, but if you do to impress the people around by the depth of your knowledge, particularly when you are not consulted upon something, you are boasting and self projecting and that is what is not desired and if you are knowingly propagating something against the facts of it that obviously creates unrest and misguides others, that is just as a plain sin. And who-so-ever does follow that from you contributes something back to add to your sins from his, if he does act upon what you said. Socially, the people as elderly as you and particularly with beard, wearing a label of one or the other clergy, whatever, if commit something undesired are always condemned in person for their act, but also as well, is condemned their theology, they represent. For instance if a teen ager drives against the red traffic signal, people tend to either ignore or at the most, say, “look at our youths”, but if a person like you and me do the same thing, people looking at us will not only condemn us in person but also our beard, saying many a times, Look at that “Darha” he is keeping and look at his acts! “Maulvi aisay hi hotay hain”, “Mullah kabhi theek naheen ho saktay” etc. etc. Isn’t it? So my brother when people like us (You and me) talk about something, should talk in more sublime words, never be abusive, talk like a descent learned man, matured enough in submission that must be not sarcastic or harshly critic but constructive with an urge to let others learn something good from you that must reflect on our life long experiences on the matter and more to it, that it must be educative for all those who read or listen to us. Nothing more I can say, but I hope you take my message without further annoyance, as you often do – I know and do admit that I am a lot less educated and so greatly less experienced as you are! May Allah bless our souls! Aa Min.
Posted on: Tue, 28 Jan 2014 07:35:20 +0000
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