Dear Zane, For the last 11 years I have stayed single because being a mother was my first priority. In August of last year, there he was, all Ive ever wanted. After becoming friends and getting to know eachother he became all I ever needed in a man. I then learned he was in a realtionship and neeed time to think things through. Days turned into weeks and weeks turned into months. He refuses to leave her. Says he is not ready and to give him time. Ive allowed myself to be second best. Ive allowed myself to be the other woman. I dont know how to remove myself. Im am completely in love with this man. Every time I think we are through and I have the strength to walk away for good somehow someway he ends up back in my bed. Lately, I feel like all we are is friends with benefits. I cant go on like this. I need advice other than the obvious. Signed, The other woman MY RESPONSE: He ran a game from the beginning. The issue is that you need to get off the board instead of moving 3-6 tiles at a time, only to end back at GO. There is really no other advice other than the obvious. Only you can block him from your bed. He has no motivation to change, or to be completely yours. You accepted the fact that he was with someone else and agreed to sleep with him on the side. It is a shame that you waited eleven years for this. Believe it or not, there are a lot of decent men in the world. Men who desire to be in a one-on-one situation and if you make it clear to any man that approaches you that you are not tolerating anything less, they will either walk or stay and agree to it. But right now, you cannot expect more than what you are getting and he has no reason to ever give you more. It does not mean he does not care about you; it means that he does not care about you are much as he cares about her.
Posted on: Sun, 09 Feb 2014 17:09:33 +0000
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