From a member: I need some thoughts. I am a wife of a combat vet. We just moved to another state.the first few weeks were calm. But as each day passes he is returning to his old ways of verbal and emotional abuse and blaming everything which he doesnt like on me. There is a friend of his with whom he has reconnected with. This friend hates me to put it mildly. I have noticed his friends attitude rubbing of on my husband. Today after being yelled at over and over. I lost it and said, I have had enough of your friend Georges attitude and influence on you and our family. Told him George is rubbing off on him and he blew up yet again this time yelling every hurtful thing he could come up with. When we moved he said he knew George was not good for him or us but now that we are here it doesnt matter. Why cant he see this person is not a friend and the damage having toxic people around causes. I love my husband and really try not to trigger him and make a safe environment for him to live with his PTSD but after awhile it gets hard when out of the blue I am the enemy. When he is calm he will tell me your the only one who has my back but now I am the enemy.his nightmares have increased along with hyper vigilance . His friend came over and told husband we needed to get our thirty day emergency kit together because he had top secret info that the government is going to take over and we need to be ready he also said we need to get rid of cell phones so we cant be tracked and listened to. My husband doesnt believe this but it triggers him. How do I take care of myself and my husband back to where he can use his tools to manage his PTSD?
Posted on: Tue, 05 Aug 2014 12:41:17 +0000
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