From our inbox. Dear, allow me to talk alittle about men and their tricks of cheating. It is common these days to see men cheating on their lovers, whether married or not. Most of them have developed tricks that prevent the lover from knowing. Most of them try to show deep love to the woman, which makes the woman to think like "my man cant cheat". Am not saying all men who show deep love are trying to hide something, but most of them. Men who cheat in this way have little chances of being discovered by the wife/girlfriend because they build alot of trust in her. This is why the woman hears about it after the other woman has two or three kids with the man, or it might never be discovered. When the wife discovers it, she is so much heart-broken. Trusting a man fully only to find out he has been fooling you for years. Phone calls that are rejected by the man could be suspects. Some men save the "dangerous" numbers as wangongole, electrician, boss, mai bwana, etc. Such names will make sure that the wife should avoid answering their calls when the secret lover is calling, at the same time the man can make up an excuse for rejecting the call. You hear things like "Wokonza magetsiyu akufuna ndalama zake koma abwana ku ntchito sakusayinila cheque, mapeto ake akuvutitsa ine." The woman easily understands and never asks questions. My plea to men is that you should love your wives purely. For women lets love our husbands and respect them, but never think or say "my man cant cheat". Above all, lets make our husbands happy all the time so that we can eliminate chances of cheating. REMEMBER HIV IS STILL LOOMING OUT THERE. Annie, BT.
Posted on: Fri, 04 Oct 2013 03:55:41 +0000