Group input needed: Im a MD mom thats looking into going back to court for custody and child support modification. My N is a police officer and his current gf helps him with wrecking havoc as well. 1.CPS complaint filed and dismissed as he had hit (punched) my daughter (5) but when interviewed she was too scared to tell on him and said she liked going over there to play with siblings so they dismissed. SMH. She refuses to answer me a simple question about her stay like Did you have fun over dads house. She will clam up now. 2. He spent our initial case filing false restrainig orders along with his gf filing them too. (I never went by myself for pickup/drop off) but still had to keep coming to court to defend. None stuck. Judge STILL used this as example of my violent behavior. GFs was dismissed after she got handed a new a-hole by judge for using her restraining order to talk about how she hated that I communicated with HER fiancee on his cell. I NEVER contacted her and had proof of her texts TO ME. SHE initiated contact. It was dismissed also. 3. lmost EVERY time we communicate I have to endure verbal abuse and comments about how new gf is better mom than me. GF will take out a freshly done hairstyle in my daughters head to redo Her way because MY way isnt good enough. (It was good enough when I was with him). She sends texts to my phone from his phone saying how shes better, about my parenting skills, etc. The simplest question leads to a 5 paragraph verbal assault. I already ONLY communicate if needed. 4. He doesnt pay CS on time and didnt until wage garnishment kicked in. A simple question in if he was going to help in DD tuition led to a long paragraph basically threatening to take her from since I cant afford my responsibilities. 5. DD isnt allowed to speak with me on phone unless hes ingood mood and insecure GF isnt around (she apparently made the rule that I am to only call their house phone and any calls made to his cell only need to be answered around her). Ive done NOTHING to make her insecure. N gives me the creeps and I only want to talk to DD to make sure she is ok and say Goodnite. 6. N hours are all over the place with him being officer.He also works PT and overtime (which he hid from judge and admitted to lying about ..judge did nothing) My schedule is M-F, Im off by time she is out of school, and I work from hm on Fri (usually teachers helper in mornings). DD is usually hm with N-GF who doesnt hesitate to scream i DDs face and threaten to slap her if she does the slightest thing wrong. Daughter is now anxious when someone gets mad at her. What do I do? Im low on funds and I just want the best for her. Father has admitted to several ppl he doesnt want to pay CS thats why he wanted joint. The judge ignored the fact he TESTIFIED to DV against me (he is a DV OFFICER)!!! She also ignored the fact that I was primary caregiver and tried to keep DD life as stable as possible. She admonished me for getting a place and a car so soon after I got a job because you did it to look good in courts eyes and You should also be ashamed of yourself for depending on parents financially (while I wasnt working due to medical issue-needed surgery). I had surgery and immediately started looking for jobs. Got job looked for place and car. Im scared to go to court. How do you protect yourself against a N-Officer?
Posted on: Mon, 02 Dec 2013 20:11:23 +0000
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