I AM WORTH A LOT (Pt 1) The weather was a humid one as the harmattan breeze was gently blowing, I was tired of sitting at home so i decided to take a walk. I had not walked long when i stumbled into an old friend, I could not believe my eyes, it was a moment of excitement for us both. He had come to visit his uncle who newly moved to my neighborhood, he was on his way to a nearby football pitch in a bit to quench his boredom too, what a coincidence! After exchanging pleasantries, He asked if i dont mind us sitting for a chat in a nearby fast food, no problem, I replied immediately and we headed for place. He ordered for two bottles of Farouz drink and asked if i needed anything more. We talked about so many things, bringing back memories but the part that seemed to have catch his breath most is what I want to share. We began to discuss about relationships and i stated this ; As a woman in this day and age, I am in a position to ask a man what he has to offer, what can he do for me that I cant do for myself. I am in a position to ask What can he bring to the table ?.He looked at me closely and i could read his mind, he thought i was referring to money but i corrected his thought immediately and stated it out to him, I am not reffering to money, i need much more. Can you open up on them?, he asked. I need a man who is striving for excellence in every aspect of life. He gently sat back in his chair and asked me to explain further and i told him, I need someone who is striving for excellence mentally because I want good conversations and mental stimulations. I want a fast thinker, a solution provider, a problem solver . I dont need a simple-minded man, I need someone who is striving for excellence spiritually,a true child of God one who can stand firmly in gap when i am weak,I dont need to be unequally yoked. Believer mixed with unbeliever is a recipe for disaster. I need a man who is striving for excellence financially, hardworking and determined to succeed amongst all odds, I dont need a financial burden neither do i need a financial parasite. He shook his head and i continued, I need someone who is sensitive enough to understand what i go through as a woman and strong enough to keep me standing firm. I need someone who has integrity in dealing with relationships. Lies, sweet talks and game plays are not my idea of a strong man. I need a man who is family oriented, one who can be a leader,priest, provider and care giver to the lives entrusted to him by God. I need someone whom i can respect and be submissive to. I have no problem being submissive but he has to earn it by loving me and taking his responsibilities seriously. To be respected, he just has to be worthy of it. And by the way, I am not looking for him, he will find me, he will recognise himself in me, he may not be able to explain the connection but he will always be drawn close to me. He sat there with a puzzled look and said You are asking for so much I replied I AM WORTH A LOT, I WORTH SO MUCH.
Posted on: Wed, 14 Jan 2015 19:44:17 +0000
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