I honestly think South Africans should just agree to disagree. We are all going to hear different stories about Senzos passing until another story makes headlines. But seeing ladies attacking each others character solely on their opinion of Kelly Khumalo is just uncalled for. Any married woman or woman who believes in a committed relationship will support Mandisa coz she knows how it would affect her if this happened to her. Hence they do not condone extra marital affairs. Any woman who does not have a problem with this would empathize with Kelly coz she is not in a married womans shoes. Personally I think we all have our opinions and we should calm down and stop cussing each other down. Yes Senzo went all public about his relationship with Kelly whilst he was still MARRIED to Mandisa. He made his choice but his choice was still ambiguous coz he did not divorce his wife. At the end of the day Kelly remains a girlfriend and Mandisa the wife irrespective of how their man acted. Men will always be prepared to have their bread buttered on both sides. They will always push the envelope and we allow them to do so. As long as a situation benefits them they are cool with it. The unfortunate part of these situations is that the children are always caught up in their parents mistakes and have to live with all these consequences. Traditionally Mandisa will go sit emakhandleleni and that is her rightful place and if she is ok with it who are we to judge. After all she vowed till death do us apart. Senzos family will also be within their right not to allow Kelly anywhere near their home. Kellys daughter will again be suffering the consequences. Instead of cussing each other out maybe women should stop and think how their choices affect their children and those they love. Ask any child born of an extra marital affair how they had to grow up and you will know that its the worst feeling ever and one should avoid it and protect your kids from such. We are way beyond the stage of thinking of just ourselves but how out present decisions will affect our children. Thank you
Posted on: Wed, 29 Oct 2014 06:17:49 +0000
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