I need to understand this..... I tell say it over and over that men and women do not know what roles to play in life or in relationships today. Lets dissect this video with the way (I) think. And please dont think that what I think is law for everyone because its not but this ratt here would never be. First of all lets just look at their attire.. Now I dont really see anything terribly wrong or wrong at all with the females attire, its actually appropriate for where they are. His attire however, pink skinny jeans, a dress shirt and a cap, leaves much to be desired and a big question mark. I dont know about you but (I) personally dont know many men who dress that way (young or old), for comfort or style. Now lets move along to the venue.. They are in a club or lounge. Hey, theres nothing wrong with going to the club or lounge with your girlfriend, I suppose. Ive done it a few times. But thats not really why we are looking at the fact that they are in a club. We are looking at their location because of what she does there so hold on to that thought and lets move on. The proposal... Hugghhhhh lawd..... She proposed to him, (I) and let me reiterate (I), know that it happens but (I) just cant see me doing it. I much prefer that the man in my life start out being the man in my life and not me asking him to be the man in my life. If I have to ask him to marry me, it will be several chilly days in hell before we get married. LOL! Im just saying. I can only imagine me having to ask him, to pay the bills, fixed the car, rear the children, come home on time, please get a job, etc. And none of that sits well with me. Back to the venue..... She chose to take or meet her boyfriend at the club, who is wearing his hat backwards, a small dress shirt and some pink skinny pants so that she could ask him to marry her.... And though he didnt appear to be very excited, he said, Yes. The club? Really? I dont even need to address that further. And just so you know...that to me would be unacceptable from a man as well. I wisha brutha would... Im comfortable being a woman and playing the role that (I) feel a woman should play because I want a man to play his role and dont dibble and dabble in mine because theres no room for two women in my marriage. You will be a man from the beginning to the end or you will be someone elses manwife. I know that there will be some who think that it is fine and times have changed, well to that I say, Call me in 5 years and well talk about why he isnt acting like a man is supposed to act in a marriage. I dont know about yall but I just say.... Heyull nawl, heyull nawl to it all.
Posted on: Mon, 30 Jun 2014 00:29:15 +0000