If you couldnt change your spouse when you were married to them, there is no way you can force change on them now. You cant win by demanding, yelling or saying bad things about your ex. Anger only escalates the conflict in the situation and then both sides dig their heels in and the child loses. If you twist things around, try to have the last word, pick fights and look for the wrong in everything your ex spouse does to start arguments or threaten to go back to court frequently over small things, guess what? You are a verbal abuser. Dont ask your child about what the other parent does. It is none of your business and may signal some hidden jealousy on your part. Dont check up on them or feel that you have a right to make judgements about what he or she is doing. Divorce took away that right. Having to report on or answer questions about the absent mother or father puts your child in a lose-lose scene. angriesout/kids4.htm
Posted on: Wed, 05 Nov 2014 17:01:37 +0000
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