If you let the past or the future rule your thoughts and your judgment then youll end up ruining your chance to enjoy being with your partner in the present. Every moment lost is a lost chance to build a more trusting relationship. Its impossible for you and your partner to move forward by obsessing over what happened or what might happen, especially if your relationship has been a bit rocky in the past. Make sure that youre living in the present . U need to built up the trust in your relationship. The biggest factor is keeping the lines of communication open at all times. Ive personally been in a few relationships that made me feel very vulnerable, but what I really wanted was a relationship where I could experience friendship, honesty, passion, love, and most of all feel as if I really had a partner in life. In order to build this kind of incredible relationship, you need to have safety as well as trust, both of which come with a little risk. If you can feel and express trust, youll also feel safe. When I talk about trust, I dont simply mean putting your trust in others; you need to be able to trust yourself, which might be difficult if your past relationships havent been fulfilling. Always be honest with your partner; sometimes the truth hurts, but hiding it only makes it worse. If your past relationships were characterized by you biting you because you thought saying what was on your mind might create problems for your relationship, it will probably be tough to start speaking the truth unconditionally. But the only way to build trust between you and your partner is to speak honestly. Its amazing the way that people can tell things to strangers but not to their partners out of the belief that their partner can possibly hurt them, but a stranger cant. You have to believe that your partners actions are all done with the best of intentions. That theyre not out to hurt you purposely. #LA
Posted on: Mon, 26 May 2014 14:22:24 +0000
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