In this age of Internet and social media, gone are the days of the off-switch for dialogue. Time was, conversations ended. Then, with the birth of online discussion forums, they could continue indefinitely (with every word preserved for all to see). Now that we are chained to mobile devices, the debates and exchanges never even have to pause. We may start them at our computers, but we continue them in the elevator…in the car…during dinner. Even during real-life banter with friends and family, fingers fly over smartphones to contribute thoughts to the discourse of the Internet world. Its hard to step back once you get used to it. I find it to be a very love-hate thing; bittersweet for several reasons. On the one hand, I am completely amazed and delighted by the ability to connect, share, grow, and learn that modern technology provides. On the other hand, the ability to tear apart an opponent with the stroke of a key makes certain biblical mandates that much harder to follow. “Know this, my beloved brothers: let every person be quick to hear, slow to speak, slow to anger”. - James 1:9 “Let your speech always be gracious, seasoned with salt, so that you may know how you ought to answer each person”. - Colossians 4:6 I believe that graciousness of speech, speaking well of others (even my enemy or opponent) is something God requires of me. As someone who rarely shies away from conversation or confrontation, every day is a battle for me in this regard. I find myself asking, Is this a hill to die on? Is this going to change anyone’s mind, anyway? Is it even my job to change this person’s mind? Is this loving? Worth the fuss? Compassionate?
Posted on: Sun, 23 Mar 2014 19:05:42 +0000
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